Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
A word more as to the necessity of _change of thought_ for the child
who has a distinct bent. The brain tissue not only wastes with work,
but, so to speak, wastes locally. We all know how done up we are
after giving our minds for a few hours or days to any one subject,
whether anxious or joyous: we are glad at last to escape from the
engrossing thought, and find it a weariness when it returns upon
us. It would appear that, set up the continuous working of certain
ideas, and a certain tract of the brain substance is, as it were, worn
out and weakened with the constant traffic in these ideas. And this
is of more consequence when the ideas are moral than when they are
merely intellectual. Hamlet’s thoughts play continuously round a few
distressing facts; he becomes morbid, not entirely sane; in a word, he
is _eccentric_. Now, possibly, eccentricity is a danger against which
the parents of well-descended children must be on the watch. These are
born with strong tendencies to certain qualities and ways of thinking.
Their bringing up tends to accentuate their qualities; the balance
between these and other qualities is lost, and they become eccentric
persons. Mr. Matthew Arnold writes down the life and the work of a
great poet as _ineffectual_; and this is, often enough, the verdict
passed upon the eccentric. Whatever force of genius and of character,
whatever lovely moral traits they may have, the world will not take
them as guides for good, unless they do as others do in things lawful
and expedient; and truly there is a broad margin for originality
in declining to hunt with the hounds in things neither lawful nor
expedient.
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