These also are ungrateful speeches of Polynices, who accuses banishment as casting disparagement upon noble birth and leaving a man without friends, who yet because of his high birth was thought worthy, though an exile, to have a king’s daughter given him in marriage, and also by the powerful assistance of his friends gathered such an army as to make war against his own country, as he confesses himself a little after: Many a famous Grecian peer And captain from Mycenae here In readiness t’ assist me tarry; Sad service ’tis, but necessary.[17] Neither are the words of his lamenting mother any wiser: No nuptial torch at all I lighted have To thee, as doth a wedding-feast beseem; No marriage-song was sung; nor thee to lave Was water brought from fair Ismenus’ stream. She ought to have been well pleased and rejoiced when she heard that her son dwelt in such kingly palaces; but, whilst she laments that the nuptial torch was not lighted, and the want of waters from Ismenus’s river for him to have bathed in (as if people at Argos were destitute both of fire and water at their weddings), she makes those evils, which her own conceit and folly produced, to be the effects of banishment. 17. But is it not then an ignominious thing to be an exile? Yes, it is among fools, with whom it is a reproach to be poor, to be bald, or of low stature, and (with as much reason) to be a stranger or a pilgrim. But they that do not fall into these mistakes admire good men, though they happen to be poor or strangers or in exile. Do not we see the temple of Theseus venerated by all men, as well as the Parthenon and Eleusinium? And yet Theseus was banished from Athens, by whose means it is at this time inhabited; and lost his abode in that city, which he did not hold as a tenant, but himself built. And what remarkable thing is there remaining in Eleusis, if we are ashamed of Eumolpus, who coming thither from Thrace initiated the Greeks, and still does so, in the mysteries of religion? And whose son was Codrus, that reigned at Athens, but of that Melanthus who was banished from Messene? Will you not commend that speech of Antisthenes, who, when one said to him, Phrygia is thy mother, replied, She was also the mother of the Gods? And if any one reproach thee with thy banishment, why canst not thou answer, that the father of the great conqueror Hercules was an exile? And so was Cadmus the grandfather of Bacchus, who, being sent abroad in search for Europa, did return no more: Sprung from Phoenicia, to Thebes he came; Thebes to his grandson Bacchus lays a claim, Who there inspires with rage the female rout, That worship him by running mad about.[18] As for those things which Aeschylus obscurely insinuates in that expression of his, And of Apollo, chaste God, banished heaven, I’ll favor my tongue, as Herodotus phrases it, and say nothing. Empedocles, when he prefaces to his philosophy thus,—