Yet certainly we may hope that another view is coming to prevail, and
that housekeepers will not shrink from the storm and stress period
that is the inevitable accompaniment of discussion of household
affairs, but will bring the courage of their convictions to bear on
the discussion of the problem. It is indeed encouraging to find so
many of them beginning their studies of household affairs, not with a
proposal of remedies that may chance to meet the disease, but with a
recognition of the existence of a great question to be investigated,
with a determination to understand the problem.
What is the problem that is presented to the housekeeper? To have
a healthy, happy, virtuous and useful household. What are some of
the external conditions necessary to such a household? Palatable,
nourishing food, regularity of meals, prompt and efficient service.
With what tools has the young housekeeper heretofore been expected
to grapple with the problem in her own home? Instinct, intuition,
love of home, the cardinal virtues, especially meekness and humility,
orthodox views in regard to the relation of the housekeeper to her
home, and a belief that personal experience, however restricted, is
an infallible guide.
What has been the result? Often disastrous failure, sometimes a
measurable degree of success, always an unnecessary expenditure of
time, money, and mental, physical, and spiritual energy. That most
pathetic story in “Pratt Portraits,” “A New England Quack,” has had
more than one counterpart in the household. The results of innocent
quackery there may not always be so consciously pathetic, the
effects may be more subtile, but they are none the less fatal. Dora
Copperfield has been, unhappily for the race, no mere picture of the
imagination.
The problem should not in itself be an insoluble one; a happy,
well-ordered household ought to be the normal condition of every
home. But to expect to secure this end with the means given a young
housekeeper is often to expect the impossible. Behind the housekeeper
is not only personal ignorance but all the force of tradition; she
must face difficulties so deep-seated as to seem almost inherent and
ineradicable.
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