Psychology and Pedagogy of AngerRichardson, Roy Franklin
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Psychology and Pedagogy of Anger
Richardson, Roy Franklin
Anger
It appears frequently in the observations that it is not what is done or
said, so much as it is the attitude of the person, that is so offensive.
A too positive and aggressive action, a too great display of wisdom, a
too familiar or condescending demeanor, may be the essential element in
the stimulus to anger. The following phrases are noted by the different
subjects as being an important part of the situation stimulating anger
of the type now being treated. C.—“I resented his too dignified air more
than anything else.” G.—“What angered me most was his condescending
attitude as if he knew it all.” I.—“He acted too wise and I was aware he
was trying to lord it over us. That was the most offensive part.” H.—“He
sat and stared at me as if he thought I didn’t know what I was talking
about.” F.—“He took on a wise air implying that he had already passed
through the stage in which I now was.” E.—“It was not his statement so
much as it was his rather spiteful attitude that angered me.” A.—“It was
not what he said. It was his haughty air and little condescending laugh
in dismissing the matter that rang in my ears.”
While in the presence of a situation that lowers self-feeling, even
though persons may not be connected with the situation, it is a common
characteristic to refer the anger to some person. The bounds of justice
may be, for the moment, overstepped. The dim awareness with some, that
the person is not to be blamed, is ignored for the time, while the
tendency is strongest in consciousness to give expression to the
emotion. The individual differences here are quite marked. G. apparently
has developed a habit of referring his anger to a principle, ignoring
the personality. In many of his observations, persons were connected
with a situation, but were neglected in his attention to the principle
violated. A business man had told him an untruth causing him difficulty.
G. states, “I was not angry at the man. That was his way of doing
business.” In the course of his emotional experience, his anger became
rather intense, referring to the business ethics practiced. The degree
in which the sense of justice is ignored under the influence of anger of
this type is also a matter of wide individual difference.
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