Psychology and Pedagogy of AngerRichardson, Roy Franklin
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Psychology and Pedagogy of Anger
Richardson, Roy Franklin
Anger
The results of this study abundantly show that a make-believe attitude
plays an important role in the anger consciousness, in both the
development of the anger and the reactive consciousness. It is believed
momentarily, when the anger is most intense, that the offender is really
a bad man. Pausing for introspection in the midst of such emotional
reaction, it is frequently reported, “I knew very well I would say
nothing of the sort and that X. was not so bad as I believed him.” While
the emotion is most intense, ill reports about the offender which were
previously ignored are now believed and assumed as true, and
satisfaction is derived by degrading the best qualities of the offender,
by believing stories of ill repute, by suspecting or imagining evil of
him. The degree in which this tendency is present, depends partly on the
intensity of the emotion, and evidently in part on the individual habits
of reaction to anger. The chronic irascible gossiper is evidently a
characteristic type of person who has specialized in this mode of
reaction to anger.
_Substitutions by Witticism and Irony._ Witticism, sarcasm, irony,
teasing and joking make up a large class of vocal and imaginal reactions
which may take the place of the initially restrained emotional tendency.
The crude remarks, transformed into wit or fitting sarcasm, overcome the
consciousness restraint that was initially present in the emotion and
lessen resistance. It is accompanied by a pleasant feeling and may be
keenly delightful. A thrust in a half serious tone accompanied by a
smile, the jest and hostile joke follow a state of mind characterized by
restraint. In the observations of the subjects studied there is evidence
supporting Freud’s (8) theory of wit. What he calls “tendency wit”; that
is, wit with a definite aim has two divisions, the hostile joke and the
obscene joke. The first is a reaction to irascible anger and the latter
to the sexual emotions. The introspection of the reactive stage of anger
consciousness shows the Freudian mechanism for “tendency wit.” The
following case will illustrate a crude kind of wit. H. whose husband had
stayed out late at night became angry following a period of worry.
Fluctuating intensities of anger and periods of worry lasted over an
hour. After a number of reactions such as planning verbal attacks;
recalling his thoughtless behavior at other times; crying, assuming an
attitude of self-pity; devising some means of making him sorry; at times
trying to assume the attitude that it was no use to be angry; taking
observations of the emotion at a number of places, motivated by a wish
that her husband would see the results and feel sorry; imagining herself
going to him and talking rather abusively. Finally she found a remark
that gave the keenest pleasure of all. “I imagined myself saying, ‘Petty
dear, you have been out pretty late tonight.’” This was a condensed
veiled statement expressing about all she would like to say. “Petty” is
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