Psychology and Pedagogy of AngerRichardson, Roy Franklin
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Psychology and Pedagogy of Anger
Richardson, Roy Franklin
Anger
a character portrayed in a current illustrated newspaper as being mean
to his wife and flaring up angrily at every little incident. The
character of “Petty” was fully understood by her husband. The crude
hostile reaction was followed by a rather condensed acute remark; it was
reported as pleasant, “because it seemed so fitting.”
C. in a discussion with X. became angry and gives the following
observation, “I noted I was getting angry and wanted to say something
hostile, but instead I turned away suddenly and laughed, saying in a
joking, half-serious manner, ‘Oh you old bottle head, you don’t know
anything.’ Although I laughed, I really meant it. That gave complete
satisfaction. He laughed too.” Let us illustrate further. A., with four
others, was walking along the street, coming from a clinic at the
hospital, where a case of flight of ideas had just been observed. X.,
one of the party, was talking in a manner that seemed to A. a little
superfluous. He resented his attitude, and turning he said to X. in a
joking manner, “What did you say? The malady must be catching,”
(referring to the case observed). X. retorted, “I never have any fixed
ideas.” A. replied, “No, they do fly away pretty fast.” A. observed, “I
felt pleased and victorious with my remark, my resentment was entirely
gone and I entered into conversation with X. in a friendly manner.”
Witticism is one of the more refined modes of substitution for the
more directly hostile attack. Sarcasm is cruder. Its mechanism depends
for the most part upon the inflection and tone of voice in speaking.
The words themselves in sarcasm are innocent enough, but the mode of
expression and the meaning involved are the sources of hostility. The
following statement represent sarcastic remarks. A.—“I think I will
come around to your Club,” emphasis on the word “your.” A.—again, “You
surely must be right,” emphasis on “surely.” J.—“You are not the boss,
then?”—emphasis on “not,” with a little sneer and an accompanying
laugh. Sarcasm is a rather cheap and easy reaction to anger. It is
consequently more easily attained than wit. The period of conscious
restraint preceding sarcasm is usually less, unless the witticism
is already made for the occasion. Its feeling effect is also not so
pleasant as of wit. At times sarcasm may be combined with rather
crude wit, but wit of a more refined type will exclude sarcasm. The
following is a combination of this kind. C., having become angry at X.
for his “bragging attitude,” says, “I was conscious of the tendency
to say something hostile, but could think of nothing appropriate. In
the course of his remarks X. finally said, ‘I never read anything for
an experiment as I fear it might bias my results.’ I suddenly found
a remark that seemed entirely fitting at the time and at once the
restraint was off. I said a little sarcastically, ‘No, you never
want to read anything, it might hurt your intellect.’ As soon as the
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