Social Life in Old Virginia Before the WarPage, Thomas Nelson
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Social Life in Old Virginia Before the War
Page, Thomas Nelson
Virginia -- Social life and customs
It has been assumed by the outside world that our people lived a life
of idleness and ease, a kind of “hammock-swung,” “sherbet-sipping”
existence, fanned by slaves, and, in their pride, served on bended
knees. No conception could be further from the truth. The ease of
the master of a big plantation was about that of the head of any
great establishment where numbers of operatives are employed, and to
the management of which are added the responsibilities of the care
and complete mastership of the liberty of his operatives and their
families. His work was generally sufficiently systematized to admit
of enough personal independence to enable him to participate in the
duties of hospitality; but any master who had a successfully conducted
plantation was sure to have given it his personal supervision with an
unremitting attention which would not have failed to secure success in
any other calling. If this was true of the master, it was much more
so of the mistress. The master might, by having a good overseer and
reliable headmen, shift a portion of the burden from his shoulders;
the mistress had no such means of relief. She was the necessary and
invariable functionary; the keystone of the domestic economy which
bound all the rest of the structure and gave it its strength and
beauty. From early morn till morn again the most important and delicate
concerns of the plantation were her charge and care. She gave out and
directed all the work of the women. From superintending the setting
of the turkeys to fighting a pestilence, there was nothing which was
not her work. She was mistress, manager, doctor, nurse, counsellor,
seamstress, teacher, housekeeper, slave, all at once. She was at the
beck and call of every one, especially of her husband, to whom she was
“guide, philosopher, and friend.”
One of them, being told of a broken gate by her husband, said, “Well,
my dear, if I could sew it with my needle and thread, I would mend it
for you.”
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