Social Life in Old Virginia Before the War — John Shaqi
Social Life in Old Virginia Before the WarPage, Thomas Nelson
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Social Life in Old Virginia Before the War
Page, Thomas Nelson
Virginia -- Social life and customs
The life within was of its own kind. There were the master and the
mistress: the old master and old mistress, the young masters and young
mistresses, and the children; besides some aunts and cousins, and the
relations or friends who did not live there, but were only always on
visits.
[Illustration: _The Exclusive Property of the Mistress._]
Properly, the mistress should be mentioned first, as she was the most
important personage about the home, the presence which pervaded the
mansion, the centre of all that life, the queen of that realm; the
master willingly and proudly yielding her entire management of all
household matters and simply carrying out her directions, confining
his ownership within the curtilage solely to his old “secretary,”
which on the mistress’s part was as sacred from her touch as her
bonnet was from his. There were kept mysterious folded papers, and
equally mysterious parcels, frequently brown with the stain of dust
and age. Had the papers been the lost sibylline leaves instead of old
receipts and bills, and had the parcels contained diamonds instead of
long-dried melon-seed or old flints, now out of date but once ready to
serve a useful purpose, they could not have been more sacredly guarded
by the mistress. The master usually had to hunt for a long period for
any particular paper, whilst the mistress could in a half-hour have
arranged everything in perfect order; but the chaos was regarded by her
with veneration as real as that with which she regarded the mystery of
the heavenly bodies.
On the other hand, outside of this piece of furniture there was nothing
in the house of which the master even pretended to know. It was all
in her keeping. Whatever he wanted he called for, and she produced
it with a certainty and promptness which struck him as a perpetual
miracle. Her system appeared to him as the result of a wisdom as
profound as that which fixed and held the firmament. He would not
have dared to interfere, not because he was afraid, but because he
recognized her superiority. It would no more have occurred to him to
make a suggestion about the management of the house than about that of
one of his neighbors; simply because he knew her and acknowledged her
infallibility. She was, indeed, a surprising creature--often delicate
in frame, and of a nervous organization so sensitive as perhaps to be
a great sufferer; but her force and character pervaded and directed
everything, as unseen yet as unmistakably as the power of gravity
controls the particles that constitute the earth.
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