Some Reflections Upon Marriage.: With additions.Astell, Mary
Philosophy
Some Reflections Upon Marriage.: With additions.
Astell, Mary
Marriage; Women -- Social conditions
We never observe, or perhaps make Sport, with the ill Effects of a bad
Education, till it comes to touch us home in the ill Conduct of a
Sister, a Daughter, or Wife. Then the Women must be blam’d, their Folly
is exclaim’d against, when all this while it was the wise Man’s Fault,
who did not set a better Guard on those, who, according to him, stand in
so much need of one. A young Gentleman, as a celebrated Author tells us,
ought above all Things to be acquainted with the State of the World, the
Ways and Humours, the Follies, the Cheats, the Faults of the Age he is
fallen into; he should by degrees be inform’d of the Vice in Fashion,
and warn’d of the Application and Design of those who will make it their
Business to corrupt him, should be told the Arts they use, and the
Trains they lay, be prepar’d to be Shock’d by some, and Caress’d by
others; warn’d who are like to oppose, who to mislead, who to undermine,
and who to serve him. He should be instructed how to know and
distinguish them, where he should let them see, and when dissemble the
Knowledge of them and their Aims and Workings. Our Author is much in the
right, and not to disparage any other Accomplishments which are useful
in their Kind, this will turn to more Account than any Language or
Philosophy, Art or Science, or any other Piece of Good-breeding and fine
Education that can be taught him, which are no otherwise excellent than
as they contribute to this, as this does above all Things to the making
him a wise, a vertuous and useful Man.
And it is not less necessary that a young Lady should receive the like
Instructions, whether or no her Temptations be fewer, her Reputation and
Honour however are to be more nicely preserv’d; they may be ruin’d by a
little Ignorance or Indiscretion, and then though she has kept her
Innocence, and so is secur’d as to the next World, yet she is in a great
measure lost to this. A Woman cannot be too watchful, too apprehensive
of her Danger, nor keep at too great a Distance from it, since Man,
whose Wisdom and Ingenuity is so much Superior to hers! condescends for
his Interest sometimes, and sometimes by way of Diversion, to lay Snares
for her. For though all Men are _Virtuosi_, Philosophers and
Politicians, in comparison of the ignorant and illiterate Women, yet
they don’t all pretend to be Saints, and ’tis no great Matter to them,
if Women, who were born to be their Slaves, be now and then ruin’d for
their Entertainment.
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