The book of the child: An attempt to set down what is in the mind of children — John Shaqi
The book of the child: An attempt to set down what is in the mind of childrenHow, F. D. (Frederick Douglas)
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The book of the child: An attempt to set down what is in the mind of children
How, F. D. (Frederick Douglas)
Child psychology
It is possible to go further than this and to say that the most vivid
imaginings are as a rule those which a child produces absolutely
and apart from the suggestion of others. Under this head comes the
imaginary child-friend called into existence in most cases by one
who has no playmate of similar age. The grown-up people in the
house know nothing of this imaginary friend until the real child is
overheard talking to it and calling it by name. It is remarkable to
notice how nothing seems to disturb the commonplace reality of the
whole thing in the mind of the child. When the imaginary friend is
in the room his or her presence is never for a moment forgotten, and
plans are gravely made to suit the convenience not of one only but of
_both_ the children.
Next in importance to the unsuggested imaginings are those to which
a sensitive child gives way on the slightest hint. This is a very
practical matter, and one to which those who have to do with children
should take heed.
[Sidenote: Imaginary Terrors.]
It is impossible to say at how early an age a suggestion of any kind
may bear fruit. A lady once said that her childhood was one long
misery owing to a vivid imagination of the terrors that awaited her
for having committed a certain fault when a baby in the nursery. It
was not, she said, that much had been made of it at the time, but
there was some suggestion of an awful unknown punishment, which her
childish brain worked upon and developed until she dared not be left
alone and became a thoroughly morbid and wretched little being.
It is obvious that too great care cannot possibly be taken by those
to whom children are entrusted, inasmuch as a chance word may set a
child’s imagination working and affect the tendency of its thoughts
and actions for years.
[Sidenote: Untruthfulness and Imagination.]
It was suggested at the beginning of this chapter that there is
probably some relation between this power of imagination and the
tendency to untruthfulness which is found in so many children. It is
one of the most difficult things possible to define exactly where
the knowledge of untruthfulness comes in. Probably no two children
are alike in this, and it requires the utmost tact and a close
knowledge of a particular child’s character to determine the point
where the one thing ends and the other begins.
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