Some deplore this, and assert that, with this immense advancement of
scientific discovery, we are losing the homely virtues of our fathers.
Others pretend that we grow better as we grow wiser, and that increased
intelligence is but another form of enlarged goodness. To myself, the
great change seems to be that every hour of this progress diminishes the
influences of woman, and that, as men grow deeper and deeper engaged in
the pursuits of wealth, the female voice is less listened to, and its
counsels less heeded and cared for.
But why do I dare to hazard such conjectures to you, so far more capable
of judging, so much more able to solve questions like this!
I am sorry not to be able to speak more confidently about my music; but
although Germany is essentially the land of song, there is less domestic
cultivation of the art than I had expected; or, rather, it is made less
a matter of display. Your mere acquaintances seldom or never will sing
for your amusement; your friends as rarely refuse you. To our notions,
also, it seems strange that men are more given to the art here than
women. The Frau is almost entirely devoted to household cares. Small
fortunes and primitive habits seem to require this, and certainly no one
who has ever witnessed the domestic peace of a German family could find
fault with the system.
What has most struck me of all here, is the fact that while many of the
old people retain a freshness of feeling, and a warm susceptibility that
is quite remarkable, the children are uniformly grave, even to sadness.
The bold, dashing, half-reckless boy; the gay, laughing, high-spirited
girl,--have no types here. The season of youth, as we under-stand it,
in all its jocund merriment, its frolics, and its wildness, has no
existence amongst them. The child of ten seems weighted with the
responsibilities of manhood; the little sister carries her keys about,
and scolds the maids with all the semblance of maternal rigor. Would
that these liquid blue eyes had a more laughing look, and that pretty
mouth could open to joyous laughter!
With all these drawbacks, it is still a country that I love to live
in, and should leave with regret; besides that, I have as yet seen but
little of it, and its least remarkable parts.
Whither we go hence, and when, are points that I cannot inform you on.
I am not sure, indeed, if any determination on the subject has been come
to. Mamma and Mary Anne seem most eager for Rome and Naples; but though
I should anticipate a world of delight and interest in these cities, I
am disposed to think that they would prove far too expensive,--at least
with our present tastes and habits.
Wherever my destiny, however, I shall not cease to remember my dear
governess, nor to convey to her, in all the frankness of my affection,
every thought and feeling of her sincerely attached
Caroline Dodd.
LETTER IV. MRS. DODD TO MRS. MARY GALLAGHER, DODSBOROUGH
Bregenz.
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