The Farmer Boy, and How He Became Commander-In-ChiefHeady, Morrison
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The Farmer Boy, and How He Became Commander-In-Chief
Heady, Morrison
Washington, George, 1732-1799
To qualify himself for the management of business affairs upon
reaching the age of manhood, he would copy off into a blank-book every
form or instrument of writing he would meet with; such as deeds,
wills, notes of hand, bills of exchange, receipts, bonds,
land-warrants, &c., &c. And, what was still more remarkable in a boy
of thirteen, he wrote down, under the head of what he called "Rules of
Behavior in Company and Conversation," such wise maxims, and lines of
wholesome advice, as he would pick up from time to time in the course
of his reading or observation, to aid him in forming habits of
industry, politeness, and morality. Some of these rules, your Uncle
Juvinell, with an eye mainly to your well-being, will repeat to you;
for, when but a boy, he got them by heart, well knowing, that, without
some such aid, he would find it hard, if not impossible, to so order
his walks through life as to win and deserve the esteem and confidence
of his fellow-men, as well as the blessing and approbation of his
Maker. And now that he has reached the evening of his days, and is
well assured that the daily observance of these rules has made him a
wiser, a better, and a happier man, he would most earnestly advise all
his friends, great or small, but especially small, be they boys or
girls, to pursue the like course, if they would be favored of Heaven
in the like manner. Here they are:--
"1. Every action in company ought to be with some sign of
respect to those present.
"2. In the presence of others, sing not to yourself with a
humming noise, nor drum with your fingers or feet.
"3. Speak not when others speak, sit not when others stand,
speak not when you should hold your peace, walk not when others
stop.
"4. Turn not your back to others, especially in speaking; jog
not the table or desk on which another reads or writes; lean
not on any one.
"5. Be not a flatterer; neither play with any one that delights
not to be played with.
"6. Show not yourself glad at the misfortune of another, though
he were your enemy.
"7. It is good manners to prefer them to whom we speak before
ourselves, especially if they be above us; with whom in no sort
ought we to begin.
"8. Strive not with your superiors in an argument, but always
submit your judgment to others with modesty.
"9. Undertake not to teach your equal in the art himself
professes; for it is immodest and presumptuous.
"10. When a man does all he can, though it succeeds not well,
blame not him that did it.
"11. Before you advise or find fault with any one, consider
whether it ought to be in public or in private, presently or
at some other time, in what terms to do it; and, in reproving,
show no signs of anger, but do it with sweetness and mildness.
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