The fear of living : $b (La peur de vivre)Bordeaux, Henry
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The fear of living : $b (La peur de vivre)
Bordeaux, Henry
French fiction -- Translations into English
It is certainly this fear which, when it does not lead to a
comfortable, selfish, practical, bachelor’s life, prompts those
marriages wherein one consults one’s lawyer rather than one’s heart,
and thinks of income rather than of the advantages of beauty, physical
and moral health, education, courage, ability and taste. Certain
theories of the day, which on their critical side are not without
justification, pretend to purify the sources of marriage by suppressing
the consent of parents which is often too apt to overlook personal
characteristics through consideration of the advantages to be gained,
and by multiplying the facilities for union with the facilities for
divorce; in a word, by associating marriage with those other unions
which have no regard for the social order, into which they introduce
anarchy. But marriage is the gateway of the family, the foundation of
the home; its aim is to complete two lives by joining the one to the
other and to bring other beings into the world. It cannot rely solely
on that love which is commonly represented with bandaged eyes; for it
is not purely an individual act, in that it both continues a tradition
and perpetuates a race. Is it the importance of this race and this
tradition which has to be considered, or is it only a petty ideal of
practical happiness, comfortable and ignoble? Can man not feel himself
fit to guide, guard, and direct the destinies of his own? Can woman
not deprive herself of luxuries that are useless, or at least merely
accessory? Would life, stripped of so many accessories and so many
useless things, simplified but not diminished, become unacceptable?
Must the place of moral force be taken by the heritage handed down by
one’s father?
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