The fear of living : $b (La peur de vivre)Bordeaux, Henry
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The fear of living : $b (La peur de vivre)
Bordeaux, Henry
French fiction -- Translations into English
After marriage, we find again the fear of living in the dread of having
children and the restraint of parenthood. To create life has become too
heavy a responsibility, too irksome a burden, above all a nuisance;
and it is thus that France has been called the land of only sons. By
suppressing the choice of making a will the Civil Code has struck a
heavy blow at the coherent unity of the family, grouped round its
head and supported by its land. But we have lately been told by _La
Réforme Sociale_ of the method employed by the Normandy peasants,
after having already been employed by so many of the bourgeoisie for
the preservation of the inheritance. For the heir nominated by the
father, or according to custom, is substituted the only son. In the
mountains of Savoy the traveller often notices on the slopes bordering
the roads, and sometimes even in the hollows of hidden valleys,
shrines dedicated to Our Lady of Deliverance. Young, wives in the
hope of having children used to make pilgrimages to these shrines.
To-day young wives thank God for a barrenness which in former days
was a reproach. A child is such a rarity that it is watched over and
spoilt. Thus the fear of living has its effect even on those destinies
which depend, so far as their beginnings are concerned, upon us only.
So many fathers and mothers cannot consent to be separated from their
children, and turn them aside from careers that are wider but more
adventurous, from marriages which would take them far away but which
would be morally advantageous to them; they weaken them, enervate or
wear out their courage instead of arousing it, and in their sentimental
selfishness impose on them a servitude which lowers their characters.
Of this fear of living, however, examples are to be found in our public
life, in our social life, in the art which expresses the feeling of our
times, in our institutions, even in matters of our health.
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