The Harim and the Purdah: Studies of Oriental WomenCooper, Elizabeth
Religion
The Harim and the Purdah: Studies of Oriental Women
Cooper, Elizabeth
East Asia -- Social life and customs; Women -- East Asia
The reforms inaugurated by this wonderful man effected vast and marked
improvement in the position of the women of the Eastern world. Her
status had degenerated from that held in ancient times until her
position was extremely degraded. She was the chattel of her father,
brother, or husband, like his camel or his sheep, and could be bought
and sold as any other chattel. She was an integral part of her husband’s
estate and was inherited by his heirs. The son inherited his father’s
wives and often married them. This Mohammed severely censured, and laid
down most exacting laws in regard to the women lawful for a man to
marry. He says:—
And marry not them whom your fathers have married; for this is a
shame and hateful, and an evil way—though what is past may be
allowed. Forbidden to you are your mothers and your daughters, and
your sisters, and your aunts, both on your father’s and your
mother’s side, and your foster-mothers and your foster-sisters, and
the mothers of your wives, and your stepdaughters who are your
wards, born of your wives, and the wives of your sons, and ye may
not have two sisters.
He is severely criticized that he authorized polygamy, but when one
remembers the wild, lawless people whom he governed, it seems that he
showed extreme moderation in limiting the number of wives to four. He
added that a man might possess the slaves within the household, and his
followers say he was compelled to put in this postscript in order to
quiet the unrest that was caused by the new domestic regulation which
was so contrary to all ideas then controlling his immediate world.
He expressly stated that if a man could not deal justly and love equally
all his wives, he must then marry but one. All true believers quote this
as meaning that Mohammed really intended his people to be monogamous, as
it was fully known that no man could love four women with equal ardour.
The husband is also enjoined to partition his time equally amongst his
families, and there is a saying that if a man inclines particularly to
one of the women of his household, in the day of judgment he will
incline to one side by being a paralytic.
He allowed women to inherit property, although he gave a girl only half
the inheritance of a boy. A wife may inherit one-fourth of her husband’s
estate if there are no children, and one-eighth if there are children;
if there is more than one wife, the eighth is divided equally amongst
them. A man may inherit one-half of his wife’s property in the event of
her being childless, but only one-quarter if she leaves children, and
neither one can disinherit the other.
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