The native usually marries early,--the brides often but eleven or
twelve years of age. A marriage-feast is entered into with pomp and
ceremony. It is a not unimportant occasion for the priest also, who
usually sets the day, and expects a large fee,--dependent upon the
wealth of the contracting parties. The evening before the ceremony,
both bride and groom go to confession, to receive absolution. About
five o'clock the following morning they leave the house of the bride,
joined by a long procession of relatives.
After mass has been said, the bride and groom stand before the priest,
who places over their shoulders a thick mantle, which is to typify
the bodily union. He then recites his formula and asks the usual
questions. To these both respond in the same low voice characteristic
of such replies the world over. As the wedded pair are leaving the
church, a bowl of coin is passed to them. The new husband stops, takes
a handful and gives it to his wife, who receives it and returns it to
the bowl. This is a token that he gives to her his worldly goods. All
then solemnly return to the paternal residence, where, meanwhile,
a banquet has been prepared.
This feast is called Catapusan which means a gathering of friends. All
the notables of the village, as well as all the relatives on both
sides, are invited to it. The table is loaded with the good things of
the season. Light liquors, chocolate, and sweetmeats are then offered
to the guests, with betel-nuts and cigars and cigarettes.
The dancing now begins. A youth and a maiden stand facing each other,
both singing a sentimental song. Then follows a musical dialogue, while
both dance round each other, keeping step to the music furnished by
the native orchestra. A young woman then steps into the middle of the
floor,--her long hair flowing down her back, her eyes sparkling. The
music begins in a low plaintive key, that gradually becomes more and
more forlorn, while her languid movements express various degrees of
sorrow. Gradually the strain flows into a livelier measure, and she
becomes more and more animated, until at last she sinks down in a
whirl of delirious passion. Then, again, a girl dances with a glass
of water on her head; or some other form of entertainment is given.
After the dancing, the men and women retire to their respective
quarters.
The marriage is always arranged by the parents of the two young
persons, who go through an established etiquette of advance and refusal
before the dowry terms are arranged. If the parents of the young man
are poor and he can offer no dowry, he often enters the household of
his intended on probation,--as Jacob did to win Rachael.
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