Jesus Christ -- Biography; Palestine -- Social life and customs; Syria -- Social life and customs
In the congratulations of guests at a {24} marriage feast the central
wish for the bridegroom and bride is invariably thus expressed: "May
you be happy, live long, and have many children!" And what contrasts
very sharply with the American reticence in such matters is the fact
that shortly after the wedding, the friends of the young couple, both
men and women, begin to ask them about their "prospects" for an heir.
No more does a prospective mother undertake in any way to disguise the
signs of the approaching event, than an American lady to conceal her
engagement ring. Much mirth is enjoyed in such cases, also, when
friends and neighbors, by consulting the stars, or computing the number
of letters in the names of the parents and the month in which the
miracle of conception is supposed to have occurred, undertake to
foretell whether the promised offspring will be a son or a daughter.
In that part of the country where I was brought up, such wise
prognosticators believed, and made us all believe, that if the
calculations resulted in an odd number the birth would be a son, but
{25} if in an even number, a daughter, which, as a rule, is not
considered so desirable.
Back of all these social traits, and beyond the free realism of the
Syrian in speaking of conception and birth, lies a deeper fact. To
Eastern peoples, especially the Semites, reproduction in all the world
of life is profoundly sacred. It is God's life reproducing itself in
the life of man and in the living world below man; therefore the
evidences of this reproduction should be looked upon and spoken of with
rejoicing.
Notwithstanding the many and fundamental intellectual changes which I
have undergone in this country of my adoption, I count as among the
most precious memories of my childhood my going with my father to the
vineyard, just as the vines began to "come out," and hearing him say as
he touched the swelling buds, "Blessed be the Creator. He is the
Supreme Giver. May He protect the blessed increase." Of this I almost
always think when I read the words of the psalmist, "The earth is the
Lord's and the fullness thereof!"
{26}
Now I do not feel at all inclined to say whether the undisguised
realism of the Orientals in speaking of reproduction is better than the
delicate reserve of the Anglo-Saxons. In fact, I have been so
reconstructed under Anglo-Saxon auspices as to feel that the excessive
reserve of this race with regard to such things is not a serious fault,
but rather the defect of a great virtue. My purpose is to show that
the unreconstructed Oriental, to whom reproduction is the most sublime
manifestation of God's life, cannot see why one should be ashamed to
speak anywhere in the world of the fruits of wedlock, of a "woman with
child." One might as well be ashamed to speak of the creative power as
it reveals itself in the gardens of roses and the fruiting trees.
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