Mississippi River Valley -- Social life and customs
In the smaller Western towns, especially where the American stock
is dominant, lines of social demarcation are usually obscure to the
vanishing-point. Schools and churches are here a democratizing factor,
and a woman who “keeps help” is very likely to be apologetic about it;
she is anxious to avoid the appearance of “uppishness”--an unpardonable
sin. It is impossible for her to ignore the fact that the “girl” in
her kitchen has, very likely, gone to school with her children or has
been a member of her Sunday-school class. The reluctance of American
girls to accept employment as house-servants is an aversion not to be
overcome in the West. Thousands of women in comfortable conditions
of life manage their homes without outside help other than that of
a neighborhood man or a versatile syndicate woman who “comes in” to
assist in a weekly cleaning.
There is a type of small-town woman who makes something quite casual
and incidental of the day’s tasks. Her social enjoyments are in no
way hampered if, in entertaining company, she prepares with her own
hands the viands for the feast. She takes the greatest pride in her
household; she is usually a capital cook and is not troubled by any
absurd feeling that she has “demeaned” herself by preparing and
serving a meal. She does this exceedingly well, and rises without
embarrassment to change the plates and bring in the salad. The salad
is excellent and she knows it is excellent and submits with becoming
modesty to praise of her handiwork. In homes which it is the highest
privilege to visit a joke is made of the housekeeping. The lady of the
house performs the various rites in keeping with maternal tradition
and the latest approved text-books. You may, if you like, accompany
her to the kitchen and watch the broiling of your chop, noting the
perfection of the method before testing the result, and all to the
accompaniment of charming talk about life and letters or what you will.
Corporate feeding in public mess-halls will make slow headway with
these strongly individualistic women of the new generation who read
prodigiously, manage a baby with their eyes on Pasteur, and are as
proud of their biscuits as of their club papers, which we know to be
admirable.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
Reviews
Reviews
No reviews yet
Be the first to share your thoughts on this work.
Join the Discussion
Join the discussion
Sign in to leave a comment or review.
Sign InorCreate an account