The atmosphere of refinement brought into the rude life of the castle by
the Troubadours is more than offset by the domestic infelicity they
caused. Each of these knight-errants of literature was supposed to
choose a lady-love, and it made no difference if she were already
married. Thus conjugal fidelity was at a very low ebb, while amorous
intrigues were openly encouraged by what amounted to a definite system
of civilization. To settle the many vexed questions arising from this
state of affairs, the Courts of Love were formed, at which noble ladies
decided all disputed points. Most famous of these courts was that of
Queen Eleanor herself, while among the others were those of the ladies
of Gascony, the Viscountess of Narbonne, the Countess of Champagne, and
the Countess of Flanders. Disputes before these courts usually took the
form of the tenson, or contention, already described.
Many are the legendary accounts of the laws upon which these courts
based their decisions. There are fables of knights riding in magic
forests and finding scrolls attached by golden chains to the necks of
fiery dragons, or the feet of fleet birds. These laws, if not applicable
in our present civilization, show in the most interesting fashion how
the subject of love was regarded in the twelfth century. Among them are
found the following startling statements:
"Marriage cannot be pleaded as an excuse for refusing to love."
"A person who cannot keep a secret can never be a lover."
"No one can really love two people at the same time," says one rule; but
another adds, "Nothing prevents one lady being loved by two gentlemen,
or one gentleman by two ladies."
Two years was the required period of mourning for a dead lover. But such
constancy may not have been demanded in the case of the living, for,
according to rule, "A new love-affair banishes the old one completely."
Lovers in those days were expected to show the most definite symptoms of
their malady; for, according to law, "Every lover is accustomed to grow
pale at the sight of his lady-love;" "At the sudden and unexpected
prospect of his lady-love, the heart of the true lover invariably
palpitates;" and "A real lover is always the prey of anxiety and
_malaise_." Also, "A person who is the prey of love eats little and
sleeps little."
There are many maxims on the best way of keeping true love alive, and
many more on the subject of jealousy. That the love of the Troubadours
was none too permanent is indicated by the statement, "A moderate
presumption is sufficient to justify one lover in entertaining grave
suspicions of the other."
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