Woman—through a man's eyeglassSalaman, Malcolm C. (Malcolm Charles)
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Woman—through a man's eyeglass
Salaman, Malcolm C. (Malcolm Charles)
Single women; Wives -- Anecdotes; Women -- Anecdotes; Women -- Social and moral questions
Of course, ideas vary with regard to the essentials of an “excellent
husband.” With many persons the _desideratum_ is reached when the
tradesmen’s bills are punctually paid, and there is no conjugal quarrel
over the dressmaker’s account. With some the model husband is he who
belongs to no club, and always stays at home in the evenings; while
others there are who consider that connubial perfection consists in the
husband going his own way, and allowing his wife to go hers and find
her own amusements quite irrespective of him. But there is really no
fixed standard of excellence in husbands. The temperament, and even the
temper, of the wife must determine this in each separate case.
Now, Dr. Hearthside was spoken of as an “excellent husband” in embryo,
and many mothers angled for him, and their daughters encouraged hopes.
He was a ladies’ doctor, and his ways with women were soft and tender,
his voice was musical and sympathetic, and his manner seemed to invite
confidence and promise protection. Yet he was before everything
professional. Tenderly as he seemed to treat them, women were to him
interesting cases, psychologically as well as medically, and his
lover-like methods were part and parcel of his practice. He knew women,
and knew that personal confidence is half the battle in successful
medical practice. Women always like to feel that a man is a possible
lover, if even they only require his services as a doctor. They do not
admit this to themselves, of course, but it is the case, for all that.
Dr. Hearthside was deceptive; his tender manner with women covered
merely a spirit of scientific investigation. When he was specially
attentive to a woman—and his attention meant a sort of respectful
devotion—he was deeply diagnosing her mental, moral, and physical
condition; but she most probably thought he was making love to her.
Mrs. Hearthside had been attracted to him in this manner. He found her
melancholy, and she interested him as a study in disappointed love. He
drew her out by speaking constantly to her about love, and she gave
herself up gradually to his persuasive influence. She had hungered
for love since death, by taking from her the man in whom her soul was
wrapped up, had made life empty for her. She fed her heart on the
memories of her love; but her soul had been awakened, and it yearned
again for loving communion such as it had once known. Dr. Hearthside
suggested the possibilities of love to her. When he analysed sentiment
to her in quite a scientific way, her heart responded with emotion,
for she thought he was pouring out his own feelings before her. So she
consented to marry him, because she believed he could love, and love
was the pressing need of her soul; while he, finding her a sympathetic
and ready listener, and being pleased with her looks and her manners,
thought she would make an excellent doctor’s wife, and help him to
enlarge his practice through her social qualities. So these two
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