Womanhood : $b The facts of life revealed to womenGoddard, Gloria
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Womanhood : $b The facts of life revealed to women
Goddard, Gloria
Married women -- Psychology; Women -- Social and moral questions
This period of unrest, of wanting something that we have not, commences
between the ages of fourteen and sixteen. In exceptional cases, it may be
hastened or retarded. At first, it is mere unrest, and the mind fastens
on the past, as something that it knows, only because it must have
something to hold to, something to explain its uneasiness. Actually, at
this time, it is the unrest of ignorance, the desire to know the causes
and reasons for everything, especially ourselves. The adolescent girl,
seeing, for the first time, most of the life about her, is puzzled, and
longs to understand. She is restless because she cannot do so. Powers and
faculties that only existed potentially before, now come into being. New
relations are established, and for the first time, the ego recognizes
itself, and takes the center of the stage.
Heredity has done its part toward molding the young life, and slips
quietly into the background. Childhood environment has started the girl’s
development, especially those intricate and usually hidden bonds that
exist between the daughter and the parents. A physical change commences
its course, a change that will slowly guide the girl from childhood to
womanhood. Physically, mentally, morally, the woman is gradually being
born. From the soft clay of girlhood is springing what the woman will
be. The model is being fashioned from within, where the girl’s real
nature and hereditary instincts are doing their work, and from without,
where environment and outside influence are doing their best to guide
the new person. Tradition has said that love is blind. More truly might
it be said that youth is blind. Youth starts toward life with eyes
raised toward idealism whose glow blinds eyes already sightless through
ignorance. The problem is, will those eyes, when they finally open upon
such reality as the world knows, fall dejectedly upon gray ashy ruins,
blackened by the now cold fires of that idealism, or will they gaze
joyfully on a not too perfect world, but one still bright with hope and
beauty? The burden of the choice lies, during these years, with the
people around the girl. Tactful, sympathetic advice, and guidance by
those whose lives touch hers will do much toward making a rounded woman
of her, and will help to open her eyes on a world she will want to live
in. Ignorance and false teachings on the subjects that vitally concern
her may leave her a warped and twisted being, dragging weary feet down
tedious years.
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