burden his childhood with a training which will be largely useless. So
much of our energy is wasted, and so much friction created, because we
are unwilling to trust life. If life is the great demoralizer, it is
also the great moralizer. It whips us into shape, and saddles us with
responsibilities and the means of meeting them, with obligations and
the will to meet them, with burdens and a strength to bear them. It
creates in us a conscience and the love of duty, and endows us with a
morality that a mother and father with the power and the love of angels
working through all the years of our childhood could not have created
within us. Trust life and not your own feeble efforts to create the
soul in the child!
The virtue of childhood, then, is an exhaustless curiosity and interest
in the world in which the child finds himself. He is here to learn his
way around in it, to learn the names of things and their uses, how
to use his body and his capacities. This will be the most excellent
working of his soul. If his mind and body are active, he will be a
“good” child, in the best sense of the word. We can almost afford to
let him be insolent and irreverent and troublesome as long as he is
only curious. If he has a temper, it will not be cured by curbing, but
by either letting it burn out, or not giving it fuel to feed on. Food
for his body and facts for his mind are the sustenance he requires.
From the food will be built up his body, and from the facts and his
reactions to them will slowly evolve his world of values and ideals. We
cannot aid him by giving him our theories, or shorten the path for him
by presenting him with ready-made standards. In spite of all the moral
teachers, there is no short cut to the moral life of youth, any more
than there is a royal road to knowledge. Nor can we help him to grow
by transferring some of our superfluous moral flesh to his bones. The
child’s qualities which shock our sense of propriety are evidences not
of his immorality, but of his pre-morality. A morality that will mean
anything to him can only be built up out of a vast store of experience,
and only when his world has broadened out into a real society with
influences of every kind coming from every side. He cannot get the
relish of right and wrong until he has tasted life, and it is the
taste of life that the child does not have. That taste comes only with
youth, and then with a bewildering complexity and vividness.
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