The Emperor Marcus Aurelius : $b A study in ideals — Marcus Aurelius — John Shaqi
The Emperor Marcus Aurelius : $b A study in ideals
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Bitter as must have been his disappointment at his ill-success with
Commodus, there was another which thrust home deeper. Ill-fame had long
been gathering round the name of his wife Faustina--the most beautiful
woman in the Empire. One of her vivacious temperament, more Parisian
than Roman, was assuredly ill-mated with the Stoic Emperor, whose
days were spent in introspection; their union was “the great paradox
of the age.” She knew no law but the law of the senses: while he was
ever guided by the admirable but unamiable call of duty, cold as the
beckoning of a star, not soft and warm as the sunlight of devotion.
No modern belle of the season had more zest in the life of the moment
than she had; whilst he lived always in the shadow of the wings of
Death. “Since it is possible that thou mayest depart from life this
very moment, regulate every act and thought accordingly.” Every act
was to be done “with forethought, as if it were the last of thy life.”
Yet, different as they were, by a whole heaven’s breadth in character,
it is to the credit of both that they loved one another. The rumours
that assailed her name were probably in great part the exaggerations
of prurient gossips, though with sufficient foundation to make them
credible. Whatever their truth, the Emperor did not hearken to them.
Even when they became the property of the stage and he himself was
ridiculed in connexion with them, he paid no heed. In the first book of
the Meditations, written a few years before the death of Faustina, he
thanks the gods that he had such a wife, “so obedient, so affectionate,
so simple.” He, too, must have felt at times that Cæsar’s wife should
be above suspicion, but his kindly nature was ever disposed to take the
most charitable view of things, and he minded little the slanderous
tongues of men.
“Does a man gather figs from thistles, or grapes from thorns?”--this
was the keynote to his philosophy of life--a strange fatalist
philosophy it too often was; but it served to lay the gibbering
spectres that haunted the palace of the Cæsars. After all, Faustina,
associating with sailors and gladiators (even if the worst were true),
and Commodus, already giving free reign to his passions over all the
paths of license, were but acting in accordance with nature, “just as
the fruit trees” or the beasts of the forest. Thus, in the loneliness
of his spirit, would Aurelius reason, with an indulgence to the
shortcomings (or worse) of others, which we must condemn as weakness.
But perhaps it was owing to his tact and consideration that her untamed
restlessness carried her to no greater excesses, and that Pater’s
words are true, “the one thing quite certain about her, besides her
extraordinary beauty, is her sweetness to himself.”