The Meditations of the Emperor Marcus Aurelius Antoninus: A new rendering based on the Foulis translation of 1742
Marcus Aurelius · en
42. When you are offended by the shamelessness of any man, straightway
ask yourself: Can the world exist without shameless men? It
cannot. Therefore do not demand what is impossible. Your enemy also is
one of these shameless people who must needs be in the universe. Have
the same question also at hand when you are shocked at craft, or
perfidy, or any other sin. For while you remember that it is
impossible that the class should not exist, you will be more
charitable to each particular individual. It is useful also to have
this reflection ready: What virtue has nature given to man wherewith
to combat this fault? Against unreason she has given meekness as an
antidote; against another weakness another power. You are also at full
liberty to set right one who has wandered; now every wrong-doer is
missing his proper aim and has gone astray. And then, in what are you
injured? You will find that none of those at whom you are exasperated
have done anything whereby your intellectual part was like to be the
worse. Now anything which can really harm or hurt you has its
subsistence there, and there alone. And wherein is it strange or evil
that the man untaught acts after his kind? Look if you ought not
rather to blame yourself for not having laid your account with his
being guilty of such faults. Your reason gave you the means to
conclude that it was probable that he would do this wrong; you forgot,
and yet wonder that he has done it. But above all, when you are
blaming any one for faithlessness or ingratitude, turn to
yourself. The fault lies manifestly with you, if you trusted that a
man of such a disposition could keep faith; or if, when you granted
the favour, you did not grant it without ulterior views, and on the
principle that the complete and immediate reward of your action lay in
the doing of it. What would you more, when you have done a man a
kindness? Is it not enough for you that you have acted in this
according to your nature? Do you ask a reward for it? It is as if the
eye were to ask a reward for seeing, or the feet for walking. For just
as these parts are formed for a certain purpose, which when they
fulfil according to their proper structure, they attain their proper
end; so man, formed by nature to do kindness to his fellows, whenever
he acts kindly, or in any other way works for the common good, has
fulfilled the purpose of his creation, and has possession of what is
his own.
END OF THE NINTH BOOK.
BOOK X.