Coelebs: The Love Story of a Bachelor — John Stuart Mill — John Shaqi
Coelebs: The Love Story of a Bachelor
John Stuart Mill · en
Mr Chadwick was present on the occasion of John Musgrave's call. He
was a big man of indolent appearance, who preferred rather to listen
than to talk, but who, when he offered an opinion, commanded naturally
the respectful attention of his hearers. One felt that the man
possessed a mind of his own. Although most people pride themselves on
this possession, it is not given to every one to secure its recognition
by others. It is usually the case that the people who insist most upon
this recognition are the people who do not receive it. John Musgrave,
although he had met Mr Chadwick before, had very little knowledge of
the man. It surprised him now to discover in him a man he could like
and feel at home with. He had been prepared for something quite
different. It had even occurred to him that no man of any intelligence
could take second place and allow his wife to usurp his privileges as
head of the house; but when he talked with Mr Chadwick he found it
necessary to modify his views to the extent of admitting that in
exceptional circumstances a clever man might do this without the
sacrifice of his dignity. Will Chadwick would have solved the question,
had Mr Musgrave put it to him, by explaining that he regarded the
individual, irrespective of sex, as being under the obligation of
filling the place he or she is most fitted to fill. It was not a matter
of privilege, in his opinion, but of capacity; and he never bothered
about sex problems. His wife and he were companions and not rivals in
their domestic relations.
When Mr Musgrave left--and he was less conventional in timing his
departure than he had been in the selection of the hour and date of his
call--he carried with him a very pleasant picture of the perfectly
organised and harmonious home of cultured and agreeable people. There
was a good deal, after all, to be said in favour of English home-life.
It was regrettable that home-life was going out of fashion.
As he walked down the broad gravelled drive Mr Musgrave pondered deeply
over these matters. He glanced about him upon the beautiful wooded
lands surrounding the Hall, and thought how many old English homes of
equal dignity were passing into the hands of wealthy strangers because
their owners preferred to live in moderate comfort abroad to clinging to
their birthright and all it symbolised in defiance of a meagre purse.
The privilege conferred by birth, and the dignity of ancient things,
were fetishes with Mr Musgrave, to whom poverty in a good old English
home would have been preferable to the easy freedom of continental life.
This was one of John Musgrave's many old-fashioned ideas; and
old-fashioned ideas are occasionally worthy to stand beside and
sometimes even in advance of the modern trend of thought.