Femina, A Work for Every Woman — John Stuart Mill — John Shaqi
Femina, A Work for Every Woman
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imaginary chloroform, which existed only in her mind, yet the real drug
could not have been more potent in its effects.
Phenomena of the same mental process, like the different colors of the
solar spectrum coming from one source, constitute the different stages
or degrees of what is generally called mesmerism or somnambulism,
until the sensitive arrives at that condition of complete double
consciousness now commonly called hypnotism, in which state the will
power of the person becomes entirely suspended, so that he acts
only from suggestions of another person, regardless of propriety or
consequences. When a subject who has been completely hypnotized is
restored to his normal condition, he remembers nothing of what has
transpired during the somnambulistic state. We all have acquaintances
of whom we speak as being easily led; by that we mean that they have no
will or mind of their own. These persons are truly unfortunate, because
they are at the complete mercy of every designing person or cunning
rogue. They constitute the large army of dupes who support the great
number of idle women and lazy men, who claim to be clairvoyants, life
readers and fortune tellers. In sickness they are equally as credulous,
and when they are a little out of sorts, they would a great deal rather
be told that some dangerous or severe illness has hold of them than
to hear the truth that, outside of not eating properly, or clothing
themselves improperly, or being out late at nights when they should be
in their beds, there is nothing the matter with them.
These are the dupes who fill up the chairs in the doctor’s waiting
rooms, on regular days, for local or special treatment for diseases
which could be much better treated by themselves at home, if they
only were fortunate enough to fall into a physician’s hands who had
the honesty to tell them so. This can be further illustrated by an
experience of which every one of us has been a victim at least once
in our lives. When we were trying on a pair of new shoes, we felt
that they pinched, or were too short and generally uncomfortable; but
the salesman insisted that they were a “perfect fit” and that after a
little wearing they would surely suit. The shoes were bought, and we
were convinced, after a few days, that our impression of the smallness
of the shoes was correct, because they continued to pinch us; but we
were for the time mesmerized or psychologized by the clerk into buying
what we were satisfied in our own minds to be not what we wanted. This
should be constantly guarded against, and our conscious will power
should always be exercised on all occasions.