One Sunday I walked to an inland town two hours behind Baraka, where I
found the people engaged in talking a dowry-palaver. I had to wait until
this was finished before I could get a hearing. The occasion of the
palaver was briefly this: Some years ago, in another town, there were two
brothers whose father died leaving them their sister as an inheritance.
A husband was found for this sister who paid a handsome dowry. The elder
brother appropriated the dowry and took to himself a wife. Several years
passed; the younger brother was grown to manhood, and he too desired a
wife but had no dowry with which to procure her. He demanded from his
brother his rightful share of his sister’s dowry. The dowry of course was
gone; but the elder brother now had a daughter five years old, and it was
proposed that he should find a husband for this child, thus procuring a
dowry with which to settle with his younger brother. The trouble between
the brothers became serious; and the people, wishing to avoid war,
induced them to ask a certain neighbouring chief, who had a reputation
for wisdom and diplomacy, to arbitrate between them and decide the matter.
This was the palaver that was in progress when I entered the town on
Sunday, and I heard the closing speeches and the decision of the judge,
which was as follows: “I will cut the palaver thus: The elder brother
must dispose of his daughter as speedily as possible, and pay to his
younger brother the sum of the dowry. Meanwhile, to procure obedience to
this, the elder brother’s wife will remain in this town as my wife until
the dowry is paid.”
This amicable arrangement was agreed to by all the parties concerned.
This chief deserved his reputation for cleverness. A few weeks later I
was passing through his town when he called after me and asked if I were
going to pass by without making him a little present of some tobacco in
recognition of our intimate friendship.
In reply I asked: “Why do you not rather complain that I pass your town
without stopping to tell you God’s Word? Is tobacco more important?”
His sprightly answer, delivered with perfect simplicity, was, “No doubt
God’s Word is more important; but tobacco also is God’s gift, and I am
very grateful to Him for it.”
Some of their immoral customs one can only mention with reserve even in
writing. It is always regarded as amiable, and is sometimes required,
that a host should give his wife to a guest. The wife is not consulted.
Yet, if the guest, being a Christian, should refuse to comply with this
custom, the woman, regarding herself as repulsed, will become enraged and
vow vengeance upon the visitor; it will be positively dangerous for him
to eat food in that town lest she poison him. It is common also for a
man afflicted with a long illness to ask a friend to assume his marital
relations until his recovery.