In one instance this request was made of a Christian man by an intimate
friend, and at the woman’s suggestion. The man in his distress appealed
to me to talk the palaver with the sick man. If a man has many wives, it
is regarded as magnanimous for him to take but little notice of social
wrong-doing; and the result is boundless immorality.
Charges of adultery are often made for the purpose of extortion. For this
same purpose husbands and wives together often conspire against another
person.
Polygamy is the greatest obstacle to the introduction of Christianity. It
is not identical with the question of African sensuality; but involves
a man’s wealth, influence and reputation, all of which depend upon the
number of his wives. It is the very foundation of the whole structure of
African society and is as firmly rooted as their Cameroon Mountain in the
African soil. Critics of missions say that the obstacle is insuperable.
But we believe in a Power that can say to the mountain: “Be thou removed;
and be thou cast into the sea.” And that same Power is actually removing
polygamy to-day. Moreover, the critics do not seem to see or do not
understand that if polygamy be an insuperable obstacle to Christianity it
is also an insuperable obstacle to civilization, which they advocate.
The renouncing of polygamy and putting away his wives with all the loss
that it involves serves as a final test of the African’s sincerity in
professing the Christian faith. The man of the parable said: “I have
married a wife, and therefore I cannot come.” When at the close of a
service in a native town I gave a similar invitation a man replied with
a sorrowful shake of his head: “I have married _five_ wives, and cannot
come.”
In the later chapters of this book I shall tell of men who,
notwithstanding the jeers and contempt of the people, have put away many
wives and have come.
Among the real negro tribes of the Soudan (for the tribes of Central
and Southern Africa are not pure negroes) there is a central government
and a general organization. But there is no tribal organization among
the Fang or any other tribe south of the Calabar River. The village,
or a group of villages close together and immediately related, is the
unit and the entirety of organization; although a common language is a
bond of sympathy and they might freely unite against a common foe. Their
government is nearly patriarchal in form. There is a headman in each
village who is usually advanced in years. But unless he has many more
wives than any other man he takes counsel in all matters with the elders
of the town; and there are many public discussions in which all the men
have a right to advise. There is no despotism, except the despotism of
custom which no chief would challenge.