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Fair’s temper was rapidly rising under the sneering remarks of the new
girl, and, with flashing eyes, she replied saucily:
“Glad to have me married and off her hands, indeed, when I am her only
support! No, I thank you, Miss Platt. Besides, mother tells me often
that she would rather see me in my grave than the wife of a poor man.”
“Wants you to marry a rich man, eh?” Miss Platt exclaimed bitterly, and
Fair responded impudently:
“Yes, indeed, if I could get one, thank you.”
A peal of laughter followed the sally, for all the girls thought it
very ridiculous, the idea of a poor little sewing girl aspiring to
a rich husband. Fair colored high at their mirth, for she had been
jesting, and now she said tartly:
“You needn’t any of you think I am expecting or hoping to get a rich
husband, for I don’t desire it. I mean, I don’t want to marry anybody,
rich or poor; but I may as well say what I think, and that is that I
wouldn’t marry a poor man--no, not even if I loved him to distraction,
for my mother says that when poverty comes in at the door love flies
out at the window; and she ought to know, for her experience was hard
enough.”
Fair had quoted “my mother” so often on this same subject that the
girls were all familiar with her story, which was that of a pampered
rich girl who had married beneath her own station in life, been
disinherited, and then driven her impecunious husband to drink by her
repinings after the luxuries she had lost, and reproaches because she
had so hard a life. He was dead now, and his widow, battling for long
years with the grim fiends of poverty and ill health, had industriously
instilled into Fair’s pliant mind her own theories regarding marriage.
But the gray-haired, matronly forewoman of the room, who secretly
despised Fair’s mother and openly loved the sweet young girl, now came
forward, and said gently, but with latent sternness:
“My dear girl, I’ve heard you quote your mother so often on this
subject that I feel like telling you a few plain facts. Will you listen
to me?”
“Yes, ma’am,” answered Fair obediently, and looking a little bit
frightened at this arraignment by this dignified forewoman, who smiled
at her kindly, and said:
“The experience of your mother is not universal, my dear. She was
unhappy with her poor husband because she did not adapt herself to
circumstances, and was dissatisfied and unreasonable. But other women
have married poor men and led happy lives with them. I married a
poor man myself, and, as I had been raised to work, I did not grumble
because I had to help to keep our simple home, but was happy in seeing
the neat and comfortable home we kept up by our united labors--he at
his trade of carpenter, I at my sewing machine. He is dead now, but I
never cast a stone at his memory by advising my young daughters not to
marry any one who is not rich, and I will offer you the same advice
that I do them.