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“If you are asked to marry a poor man, whose only fault is his poverty,
take him, if you love him, and do your part toward getting along and
making a happy home for your husband. Besides, Fair, it would be easier
for you to be happy as a poor man’s wife than it was for your mother,
as she had been raised in luxury and did not know how to labor. But
as you are a working girl, you would not expect anything else than to
help your husband get along. Excuse me for speaking so plainly, but it
is for your own good, as I can’t bear to see your little head filled
with foolish fancies about getting a rich husband. You are very pretty,
I own, but rich men do not often marry factory girls, no matter how
pretty they are,” and, so saying, she turned away, followed by a murmur
of approbation from everybody except Sadie Allen, who remained very
silent, because she saw that Fair’s eyes were full of tears.
CHAPTER II.
HER MOTHER’S ADVICE.
Poor little Fair! It was quite true, as the forewoman intimated, that
she had not had a judicious training, for her mother was a foolish,
weak-minded woman, who had, indeed, filled her child’s head with
romantic notions about marrying above her station.
“You are pretty enough to marry a king, my darling, and you would be a
little fool if you threw away all your chances by marrying a poor man,”
she had said often; and, as if to make her advice more impressive, she
would add: “Besides, what would become of me if you married a poor man?
He would not want to take care of me, and you would be so busy caring
for his house and minding his children you would have to desert your
poor old mother.”
Little Fair shed tears at the thought of deserting her helpless mother.
“I shall always work for you and live with you, dear mother,” she said,
adding, as a clincher: “I shall never marry any one.”
“Do not say that, my little Fair, for I should not like to have you
live an old maid. I live in hopes that by a fortunate marriage you
may some day be raised to the position in life that I once occupied,”
answered the ambitious mother.
And it became tacitly understood between them that Fair was to marry no
one unless he was rich; and, as she had no expectation of that, she had
long ago made up her mind that she would be an old maid.
“Like that old crosspatch of a Miss Smith, who has worked in the
factory thirty years, and hates the sight of a man,” the girl thought
plaintively; but, in her devotion to her selfish mother, she vowed
herself bravely to the sacrifice. Courtship, and love, and marriage
such as her companions talked and dreamed of were not for her. Through
her mother’s peculiar training, she had become quite worldly-wise.