The old South : $b A monograph — John Stuart Mill — John Shaqi
The old South : $b A monograph
John Stuart Mill · en
Linked indissolubly with this aristocracy of wealth and of blood
was one which, in my judgment, was stronger than either, and which
extended beyond the lines of those who were born to the purple of
wealth or the pride of a great name. I do not know better how to
denominate it than this—the aristocracy of honor. Proud of their
great homes and positions of leadership, and boastful of their high
descent, the aristocrats of the Old South, true to the Cavalier
traditions, erected an ethical system that defined and regulated
personal and public matters and became the inflexible code of every
Southern gentleman. Its foundation was laid in a man’s “honor,” and
the honor of a gentleman was the supreme test and standard of every
relation, public and private. The extremes of this old Southern
ethical code were illustrated, on the one part, by the maxim that
“a man’s word is his bond,” which meant that, the word of honor
once passed between men, it must be as inviolable as life itself.
Practically, it came to mean, as the present generation little knows
or appreciates, that ninetenths of the business of the Old South
was a mere promise to pay, and that its millions rested from year to
year upon the faith and honor that underlay its vast credit system. A
gentleman of the Old South might be guilty of not a few peccadillos.
He might sin easily and often against himself, but woe to the man who
sinned against other men by withholding what was due and had been
promised “on honor.” Personally I have known men of large business
affairs whose whole fortunes depended on the passing of a word, and
who on the instant would have surrendered their last dollar to make
good that “word of honor.” Nor was this exceptional. It was bred in
the bone and flesh of every old-time Southern boy that upon this word
of personal faith the gentleman must take his stand, and at whatever
cost of comfort or convenience or self-denial or sacrifice, even to
the death, he must make it good. Such was the code of honor upon its
business side.