But if, instead of attending to professions so justly to be suspected,
and assurances so liable to deceive, I desire information, and would
see knowledge; here is its most agreeable source. One is immediately
charmed with the good sense which is to be met with in company of the
French, not only among the learned, but with men of all ranks, and
even among the women: the turn of conversation is always easy and
natural, it is neither dull nor frivolous, but learned without
pedantry, gay without noise, polite without affectation, gallant
without being fulsome, and jocose without immodesty. Their discourse
is neither made up of dissertations nor epigrams; they reason without
argumentation, and are witty without punning: they artfully unite
reason and vivacity, maxims and rhapsodies; and mix the most pointed
satire and refined flattery with strictness of morals. They talk about
every thing, because every one has something to say; they examine
nothing to the bottom, for fear of being tedious, but propose matters
in a cursory manner, and treat them with rapidity: every one gives his
opinion, and supports it in few words; no one attacks with virulence
that of another, nor obstinately defends his own; they discuss the
point only for the sake of improvement, and stop before it comes to a
dispute: every one improves, every one amuses himself, and they part
all satisfied with each other; even the philosopher himself carrying
away something worthy his private meditation.
But, after all, what kind of knowledge do you think is to be gained
from such agreeable conversation? to form a just judgment of life and
manners; to make a right use of society; to know, at least, the people
with whom we converse; there is nothing, Eloisa, of all this: all they
teach is to plead artfully the cause of falsehood, to confound, by
their philosophy, all the principles of virtue; to throw a false
colour, by the help of sophistry, on the passions and prejudices of
mankind; and to give a certain turn to error, agreeable to the
fashionable mode of thinking. It is not necessary to know the
characters of men, but their interests, to guess their sentiments on
any occasion. When a man talks on any subject, he rather expresses the
opinions of his garb or his fraternity, than his own, and will charge
them as often as he changes his situation and circumstances.