To observe in the space of three weeks all the different company that
is kept in a great city; to pass judgment on their conversation; to
distinguish precisely the false from the true, the real from the
affected; the difference between their thoughts and words: this is the
very thing for which the French are frequently censured by people of
other countries; but this nation especially deserves to be studied
more at leisure. I as little approve also of persons speaking ill of a
country where they reside and are well received: they had better, in
my judgment, submit to be deceived by appearances, than to moralize at
the expense of their hosts. In short, I always suspect the candour of
those observers, who set up for wits. I am always apprehensive lest
they should insensibly sacrifice the real state of things to the arts
of description, and affect a brilliancy of stile at the expense of
truth.
You know, my friend, the saying of Muralt, that wit is the epidemical
madness of the French: I am mistaken if I do not discover some marks
of your being yourself infected with this phrenzy. There is this
difference, however, that while it is agreeable enough in the French,
the Swiss are of all people in the world those it becomes the least.
There is something very quaint and far-fetched in many passages of
your letter. I do not speak of the lively turn or animated
expressions, which are dictated by any peculiar strength of
sentiments, but of that affected prettiness of stile, which being
unnatural in itself, can be natural to no people whatever, but betrays
the absurd pretensions of the person who uses it. Pretensions, with
those we love, good God! ought not all our pretensions to be confined
to the object beloved? It may be permitted to enliven an indifferent
conversation with such rhetorical flourishes, and they may pass off as
fine strokes of wit; but this is not the language adapted to the
intercourse of lovers; the florid jargon of gallantry comes less from
the heart than the most rude and simple of all dialects. I appeal to
yourself: did wit ever find an opportunity to intrude into our private
parties? if those fond, those endearing conversations had a charm to
dispel and keep wit at a distance, how ill-suited are its
embellishments to the letters of absence, always clouded in some
measure with sorrow; and in which the heart expresses itself with
peculiar tenderness? but, though every passion truly great should be
serious, excess of joy sooner calling forth our tears than our smiles,
I would not have love be always sad; its chearfulness should,
nevertheless, be simple and unaffected, without art, without
embellishment, and undissembled as the passion itself. In a word, I
would have love appear in its native graces, and not in the false
ornaments of wit.