Would you recall every one to his highest duties? Begin with the
mothers; you will be astonished at the changes you will effect. From
this first depravity all others come in succession. The entire moral
order is changed; natural feeling is extinguished in all hearts.
Within our homes there is less cheerfulness; the touching sight of a
growing family no longer attaches the husband or attracts the attention
of strangers. The mother whose children are not seen is less
respected. There is no such thing as a family living together; habit
no longer strengthens the ties of blood. There are no longer fathers
and mothers and children and brothers and sisters. They all scarcely
know one another; how then should they love one another? Each one
thinks only of himself. When home is a melancholy, lonely place, we
must indeed go elsewhere to enjoy ourselves.
But let mothers only vouchsafe to nourish their children,[2] and our
manners will reform themselves; the feelings of nature will re-awaken
in all hearts. The State will be repeopled; this chief thing, this one
thing will bring all the rest into order again. The attractions of
home life present the best antidote to bad morals. The bustling life
of little children, considered so tiresome, becomes pleasant; it makes
the father and the mother more necessary to one another, more dear to
one another; it draws closer between them the conjugal tie. When the
family is sprightly and animated, domestic cares form the dearest
occupation of the wife and the sweetest recreation of the husband.
Thus the correction of this one abuse would soon result in a general
reform; nature would resume all her rights. When women are once more
true mothers, men will become true fathers and husbands.
If mothers are not real mothers, children are not real children toward
them. Their duties to one another are reciprocal, and if these be
badly fulfilled on the one side, they will be neglected on the other
side. The child ought to love his mother before he knows that it is
his duty to love her. If the voice of natural affection be not
strengthened by habit and by care, it will grow dumb even in childhood;
and thus the heart dies, so to speak, before it is born. Thus from the
outset we are beyond the pale of nature.